Hello, and welcome. I offer a non-judgemental space to reflect on your life, and where together, we can approach what may have previously been too painful to acknowledge, or unheard until now.
I believe therapy is a process of coming to know ourselves more intimately and navigating a path to meet the world more fully. It's a journey of deepening awareness, acceptance, courage and compassion.
Hello, and welcome. I offer a non-judgemental space to reflect on your life, and where together, we can navigate a path to meeting the world more fully.
How I Work
Some of us come to therapy with the recognition that we are not happy with how things are. We might come with a desire to understand ourselves more deeply. Some of us may experience self-loathing, a lack of meaning, or a feeling that we are out of place in the world. The reasons for these difficulties might seem clear or it might be that all that we know is that something is wrong and we cannot continue as we are. Whatever it might be for you, you are welcome as you are.
Therapy with me is a joint endeavour to make sense of your experiences and find a way forward. It's a process of bringing awareness to the patterns, habits and meanings that influence how you live in the face of the unique challenges of your life. I won't diagnose you or label you, but I will bring curiosity to what has brought you to this point in your life, even when this may feel challenging. In doing so, we might discover fresh ways to move through the world with creativity, intention and freedom. Ways that feel more truthful and aligned with ourselves.
The relationship between us, built on non-judgemental dialogue and trust, is central to how I work. I believe there is profound potential for change when together we are able to openly and honestly explore and share our responses to what is happening.
I encourage you to bring the entirety of your being to therapy. We meet the world with and through our bodies, and attending to the subtle ways we experience this meeting can tell us a lot about how we live. Sometimes I might draw attention to your bodily experience of what is happening - perhaps your posture, your breath, a sensation that comes with a certain topic, or maybe something harder to pinpoint.
About Me
I hold a Master's degree in Psychotherapy & Counselling from Regent's University, London, a world-renowned training centre for existential psychotherapy, as well as a Master's degree in Chemistry.
My training at Regent's was initially integrative, meaning I studied a variety of different therapeutic approaches, before I trained specifically in an existential-phenomenological way of working. This approach makes use of philosophy, favouring personal understanding and lived experience over explanation and theory. This also means that I am not a distant, theorising clinician, but am here to meet you as a real person, alive to what you bring to the sessions.
I have worked with clients from a huge range of backgrounds varying in age, class, sexuality and gender. I have experience working in bereavement therapy services in London, as well as in the NHS and charity sector.
For many years I have also volunteered for a drug harm-reduction service as a chemist, as well as for services delivering psychological support to people who are in the midst of challenging experiences following the use of psychoactive or psychedelic drugs. Please note that although in my work I can support with the integration of these experiences, I do not as a therapist work with those under the influence of drugs at the time of sessions.
Practicalities & Frequently Asked Questions
What can you help with?
I support individuals who are 18+. I have supported people through a range of life experiences, including:
- Bereavement and loss (of a person, a relationship, a future…)
- Anxiety and panic-related issues
- Depression and hopelessness
- Self-loathing and low self-esteem
- Loneliness and isolation
- Suicidal thoughts
- Fear of death and ageing
- Lack of meaning and purpose
- LGBTQ+ related issues
- Issues surrounding body image
- Relationship difficulties (family, friends, partners…)
- Climate anxiety
- AI-related anxiety
How do I know if you're the right therapist for me?
Finding the right therapist is extremely personal and can be a task in itself. There is no one therapist who is right for everyone, and meeting is the best way to feel for yourself whether I am the right therapist for you. You can contact me to arrange a free 30-minute introductory video or phone call.
This call gives us both a chance to see how it feels to work together, to explore in more depth what brought you to therapy, and to then agree on how we wish to proceed. If we choose to work together, usually this means agreeing on either a set number of sessions for short-term therapy or an initial commitment of 6 sessions if we agree to work open-ended, after which we can review again.
Are you a member of a professional body?
Yes. I am a registered member of the British Association for Psychotherapy and Counselling (BACP) as well the Society for Existential Analysis (SEA). I abide by the BACP's ethical framework and regularly attend supervision with a BACP-registered supervisor, as well as ongoing professional development training.
How often do we meet?
Sessions last for 50 minutes and are typically weekly, at the same time each week.
How long will therapy last?
There is no one answer to this. I offer both time-limited and open-ended therapy, and we would discuss what is suited to you in our initial session. For some, a focused short set of sessions is sufficient to meet specific goals, while others find it beneficial to have a consistent space that they can return to.
Where do you work?
I work in-person in London Bridge, London, as well online or via telephone.
Fees
I offer a free initial call, after which I charge £70 per session.
Contact Me
You can contact me to arrange a free 30-minute call by emailing contact@jamesgardiner.me or by filling out the form below and I will get back to you as soon as possible.